Values and beliefs
Values
general conduct
- always follow my daily habits – identity-based habits are the foundation of who you are.
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never waste a single second of time – in the worst case, do something for just a minute towards your goal..
as seneca wrote, life is long if you know how to use it. - be energetic every time
- learn something (new) everyday.
- family come first followed by health – hierarchy of essentials.
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learn to forgive, mostly – the art of forgiveness.
“holding on to anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.” – buddha
- take the hard road, mostly
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experience things(good/bad) as fast as you can – google x projects built on failures.
“if you want to increase your success rate, double your failure rate.” – thomas j. watson
- never complain, never explain.
mindset & thinking
- zero regrets, always be grateful – practice amor fati (love of fate).
- you will be happy not thinking of being it – the backwards law.
- less drama (social media, politics) – amazing book by cal newport: digital minimalism.
- if you don’t know, say you don’t know – the power of intellectual humility.
- first principle to everything – reasoning from first principles rather than analogy.
- if something takes 2 min, do it – the gtd rule by david allen.
- if you wanted to procrastinate, just do the work for 2 min – james clear’s 2-minute starter.
- if you want to be einstein, do what einstein did at your age – modeling excellence (nlp strategy).
- send the message, meet the person – use the regret minimization framework.
- never live in illusion – always test against reality (the reality principle).
- only obsess over things you have power to change – the dichotomy of control.
Beliefs
- life is not easy – 10 bitter lessons i learned from 27 years of life.
- there’s no perfectly right or wrong, same for people.
- desires can be best and worst at the same time – the hedonic treadmill of wanting more.
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you don’t learn without making mistakes. – the value of failing forward.
“insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.” – albert einstein
- don’t multitask – multitasking is a myth.